Attending the last Tecumseh high school reunion was one of the most fun-filled and enriching events of my adult life.
I, like many, do not hold the fondest dreams of my high school years. They were a mixed bag to be quite frank. Acne, insecurity, first kisses, the Hustle, friendships, loss of friendships … frankly I was quite glad to get the heck out of Dodge when that last exam was finished.
But, as I have now finished parenting my own adolescents in a different time in a different place I have a more balanced perspective.
I have the luxury of seeing those years from a gentler vantage point. I am also aware that these are the experiences and people who contributed an essential part of who I am today.
The last reunion was for me, about “reclamation”. Honouring the parts of myself that were young and innocent and vulnerable and hopeful. Re-connecting with the very people who helped me form the ideas I hold about myself, life and relationships.
I also was shocked at how many things I had not remembered. Talking with my former classmates brought back so much of my own history – pieces of myself I had lost or forgotten; although some I am happy to have left behind!
I was moved beyond belief at the decency and kindness of my fellow Tecumseh Braves. The solid values we took for granted. The teachers and their dedication who still recall things about all of us so many years later.
And when one of my classmates passed away the year after the last reunion I was understandably saddened, but relieved that I had seen, and talked and shared laughs with her. It meant so much to me.
I am so happy we can all get together again in July! I want to hear how your life has gone and hear how we mattered (or didn’t!) to each other.
You are part of me. And I can’t wait to see you all again!
Tracy Theemes, Class of ’78
